This might be the simplest and shortest of my posts yet. That doesn't decrease its importance, however.
Have you ever been dying to say something to someone but you weren't quite sure if you should? Or have you ever said something only to wish you could retract it?
Of course you have. We all have!
Sufi poet and scholar, Rumi, suggested all words pass through three gates before they leave our mouths.
Particularly when giving feedback, get present and speak only if the answer is an emphatic YES to these questions:
Is it true? To the best of your knowledge, do you have the facts? Or are you making assumptions based on your perceptions?
Is it necessary? Will the other benefit from your words? What might be the impact if you spoke up? What about the impact of staying quiet?
Is it kind? Check your intentions. Be a good human.
Let's be impeccable with our words.
Let's be kindful. ❤️
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